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In memory of those who have Crossed the Bar
MURPHY Barry James (Murph) - born November 5, 1931, in Winnipeg, Manitoba; passed away peacefully at the Royal Jubilee Hospital on January 29, 2003, at the age of 71. Survived by loving wife and best friend of 20 years , Wanda; children Wayne(Debra), Adrienne, Carla (Ed) and Paula (Ed); grandchildren Kyla, Aaron, Alyssa, Shea and Bryce James, and surrogate family Holly, Ric and Bryan. Also remembered by Dodie (Lloyd), mother of Wayne and Adrienne. Survived by siblings Pat (Clive), Maeva (Art), Bill (Helen) and numerous nieces and nephews. Barry (Murph) served 25 years with the Canadian Navy, including the Korean War, and retired with rank of Chief Petty Officer First Class in 1974. He began his counselling career in 1966 as a Peer Counsellor and completed many courses through the Alcohol and Drug Commission in 1977. Murph was an E.A.P. Coordinator for the Interlock Society in Vancouver before becoming the Senior Counsellor at Gillain Manor in 1978. In 1981, he commenced private practice on a full-time basis. As his practice grew, it knew no boundaries. He was awarded numerous contracts, ranging from the Federal Offenders Program to City Employees, as well as Fire and Police Departments. He also helped their families and people from all walks of life. His training, his instinct, and most of all his private involvement in A.A. for 42 years, made him always remain humble but also made him the successful counsellor that he was. Many clients over time enjoyed the privilege of becoming part of his family. Murph lived life to the fullest. He enjoyed his work tremendously, cheered on his beloved Canucks and most of all, loved his family. Murph leaves behind many clients, colleagues and dear friends including Chuck, Grace, Tim, Jeffrey and so many others too numerous to list. He leaves behind for his family and friends an incredible legacy of honesty, love and caring, examples for us all to follow. He had an overwhelming sense of responsibility and was always there for his family, friends and clients. To all of his clients: Please honour Murph by continuing to do the work that he taught each of you. The family would like to thank Dr. Guy, Dr. Hargrove, Dr. Fretz and the many nurses of the Royal Jubilee Hospital for their exceptional care. In lieu of flowers, donations may be made to the John Howard Society or a charity of your choice. Details to follow regarding the Memorial Service. One Day at a Time (The Victoria Times Colonist 01 Feb 2003)
Ships served in: HMCS CAYUGA - Served in CAYUGA for her 1951 Korean War Tour as an ABCV1 HMCS QU'APPELLE - Served in QU'APPELLE 1968-1970 as a C2SG
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