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In memory of those who have Crossed the Bar
WESTLAKE, John Alfred - It is with deep sorrow and much love that we announce the passing of John Alfred Westlake, who died peacefully on September 4, 2025, at the age of 77.
John was born on October 8, 1947, in Belleville and grew up on the family farm in Carrying Place, Ontario. He was predeceased by his parents, Marie (née Millman) and Ernie Westlake, who instilled in him a strong sense of duty and service.
Answering the same call to serve that inspired his father, John joined the Royal Canadian Navy immediately after high school. He went on to enjoy a commendable 37-year career, serving in posts around the world. His leadership, professionalism, and steady hand earned him the respect of all who served with him. He retired with honour at the rank of Commander, leaving behind a proud and decorated legacy.
In retirement, John shared many wonderful years with his beloved wife Meredith, who sadly passed away in 2017. Together, they travelled extensively, spent cherished time with friends, and remained deeply involved in the lives of their sons and grandchildren.
John is lovingly remembered by his sons, Scott (Marisa) and Craig (Nicole), and will be deeply missed by his grandchildren: Emma, Keira, Charlotte, Aidan, and Owen. He is also survived by his younger brothers, Stephen (Jana) and Dennis (Vicki), his brother-in-law Stephen (Christine), and many extended family members.
John was blessed with the enduring friendship and support of many dear companions from his Navy career and from his years living in Dartmouth, Northwood (England), Ottawa, and beyond. In retirement, he found great joy on the golf course and treasured his time with friends at Hylands Golf Club, where camaraderie and laughter were always close at hand.
The family extends heartfelt thanks to the compassionate team at The Promenade Residence, where John received wonderful care in recent years, and to the dedicated staff at The Montfort Hospital, who looked after him with dignity and kindness in his final days.
John will be laid to rest beside his beloved Meredith at Beechwood Military Cemetery, a place of honour befitting a life defined by service, loyalty, and love.
In lieu of flowers, the family encourages donations to a veterans organization or a charity of your choice in John's memory.
He will be remembered always—with pride, with affection, and with profound gratitude. (Beechwood Funeral Cemetery and Cremations Services)
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